06th Jan 2009
no honey that aint love thats just a man being insecure and an a**. it isnt tough love, love or what ever. Dont put up with that no woman diserves treatment like that.y does he needs to beat u?to show who's boss?well obviuosly he doesnt love u..true love does not work dat way.its selfless more than anything...d rest its up 2 u but a girl does not deserve such a treatment..Nope.no that is obsession. get rid of the moron before he gets dangerous!You know the answer. Dump him immediatelyNo. The very nature of love is kindness. If someone loves you truly he would not mistreat you, on the contrary he would only care about seeing you happy and safe. Plus, it is very important to have love for oneself and also respect. You should not allow anyone to beat you.get rid of the guy, there's no true love thereNo, it's not love in any way, fashion, or form!! Get away from the abusive a$$hole before he hurts you really bad and maybe puts you in the hospital, or kills you!! No woman, no matter what she's done, deserves to be beat by a man, not ever!!! If anything you do makes him that mad, he should just walk away. You said you were dating him?? Not living with him, or married to him? Sweetie, you don't have to date anyone you don't want to. If you're afraid to tell him "NO" then have another male meet him at the door when he comes for you to tell him that you will no longer be going out with him...your father, a friend, anyone who could hold their own with him, and if he tries to force his way in, call the police on him, then go take an Order of Protection warrant out on him if you have to...he won't be able to come within 5000 feet of you without getting arrested. Talk to your local police dept. and see what they suggest for you to do.no tht is not true love as long as he is putting his hands on you in away other than to hold your hand. get out of this relationship befor he ends up killing you. Realize you are better than tht and you can find tht true love somewhere elseThere is no way on earth that this man loves you & no way on earth he's mentally healthy... honey, if you're serious with this guy then the most important thing between you two is the trust & respect. If he doesn't respect you now... then he'll destroy you... nothing on earth is worth your tears & sorrow... respectable guys are alot out there, know one of them & you'll know what true love´feels like!!
Hit the road girl as soon as possible before you get killed... if he beats you for small things then what will he do if a big thing happens... Pull yourself gradually cause he can b really harmful if he knew you're leaving him..Well sweety i know your sitting there reading all these responses to your question and your thinking WOW it looks like everyone is telling me the same thing..TO GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Well honey they are all correct.. It may seem hard because you LOve him but in the long run i promise it will make you a better person.
People have to love thereself FIRST before they can Love someone else. Always remember that.And remember it gets worse before it gets better. Well your at the worse stage so get out and do better and get better.Everyone on this Earth has a soul mate even if there not right under your nose but be patient they will come ..
But for now you need to realize that you are better than that dont let him treat you like a puppet..
Just start over and i promise it will get better. But if he will hit you then if yall have kids he will hit them.Not counting the physical abuse is just as bad mental abuse..
So just do whats right for yourself and start over!
It's a new year and your deserve better!
Good Luckdont date the sadist tell him to **** offThat weak little man that thinks he needs to hit you to feel like a "man" needs to GO!!!!Please do not fall into beat woman syndrome and confuse those beatings as a sign that he truly loves you. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't beat you.yup - if you are into BSDMnaw u need 2 bust a cap in his buti don't see anything good in that r/ship#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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